4 letter in one word...

in order to become stronger and to find what truly belongs 2 you.... there will be a process that you must overcome....it likes when you r doing a pottery.....you need turned upside down, stepped on, cut over and over again.....and it needs to withstand until 1300 degress of heat.....but that is not the end, and when u go through all that and it still can't be yours....you need to completly give up..........